early in Lara Jean's senior year
A Night at the Rotunda
After winning the long ball game, Lala Jane watched Peter in the crowded party until he texted her asking why she had been looking at him all along. Peter took her to the campus of the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604), and they sat side by side on the steps of the circular hall, talking about
spring of Lara Jean's senior year
Margot's Advice
While decorating Easter eggs, Lala Jane video called her sister Maggie, who was studying in [Scotland](entity:location-recall-location-scotland-4e112aa71aa3). Maggie assured her that she would be admitted to the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604), and advised her to make friends and find the Asian American community, not to let Peter's college life determine her life. Lala
the day after the egg-decorating call
Stormy's Pink Diamond
Lala Jane takes a hand-made Easter egg to the Bellview Nursing Home to visit [Stormy](entity:character-recall-character-stormy-73e914cfa9cb) and apologizes for not visiting her because she has been busy with college applications. Stormy teases her that she has fallen in love, and then gives her a pink diamond ring that once belonged to a
spring of senior year
The Cookie Quest
At home, Lala Jane continued experimenting with chocolate cookies, striving to balance the thin, crisp lace-like cookies that Kitty likes with the soft, chewy texture that Peter prefers. She repeatedly tested sugar, leavening agents, chocolate, and freezing methods, yet felt discouraged as every batch of cookies
spring of senior year
A Perfectly Ordinary Movie Night
Lala Jane, Peter, and Kitty watched Romeo and Juliet together. Lala Jane cried for this love story and realized that lasting love is not just the dramatic first meeting, but choosing each other day after day. Peter and Lala Jane discussed what counts as a romantic encounter and admitted they no longer
spring of senior year
The Family's New Couple
Lala Jane remembered her father's relationship with neighbor [Trina Rothschild](entity:character-recall-character-trina-rothschild-566554dd6ad0), who now officially dates him. She could see how Trina brought energy and companionship into Dan Kowie's life, but she also worried that Peter's mother still didn't trust her because she had broken up with Peter
senior week
Senior Week Begins
Lala Jane and Peter participate in the senior year theme week organized by the school, starting with wearing school colors, and the students begin to carefully design dance invitations. Friends eat the freshly baked cookies that Lala Jane has made, while Peter casually calls her his girlfriend, still making her feel cherished again
Thursday of senior week
Fight Club Costumes
On Role Play Day, Lala Jane and Peter chose to dress as Taylor Dorton and Mara Singh from Fight Club. Trina helped Lala Jane get ready for the costume, while Peter appeared with his hair dyed golden. He played music in the corridor to help the students recognize the pair
the evening after characters day
Peter's First Kiss
When Peter drove Lara Jane home, they compared how many people each had kissed. Peter admitted that the so-called Merter Beach girl was made up by him: in the basement of John Ambrose McLaughlin's house, the real person who became his first kiss was Lara Jane. Lara Jane was
the first day of the senior trip
The New York Promposal
On the first day of the trip to New York, Peter arranged a dance invitation for a group of senior high school students. He brought a teddy bear that would display the invitation when squeezed. The security guard mistakenly took Peter's unattended backpack as a threat, interrupting the surprise. Lala
the second day of the senior trip
A Cookie Across Central Park
While touring Central Park, Peter left the student group and returned with a warm Lemon Bread Store cookie in his hand. Lala Jane was moved because she remembered she wanted to try the cookies from that store; then she and [Chris](entity:character-recall-character-chris-6b96eaa1894c) shared the large, solid cookie. Later, after being allowed to leave
early morning on the final day of the senior trip
Sunrise on the Roof
It was still dark when Peter woke up Lala Jane, taking her with coffee and tea to the hotel roof. They were wrapped in Peter's hoodie, watching New York awaken from sleep, imagining what it would be like to live here after university. Lala Jane realized that as long as Peter was
the Thursday after the New York trip
The First Rejection
After returning home, Lala Jane anxiously waited for the admission results from the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604). On French class, she logged into the system and found out she was rejected, not even making the waitlist. The news suddenly destroyed the future she had imagined for herself—going to the University of
the morning after the rejection
A Future Without UVA
Lala Jane woke up and thought about all the ordinary family moments she might have missed if she left home: Kitty growing up, family birthdays, and the days when the Song sisters lived together. She told the admissions counselor about her rejection, but didn't know where she would go, and had to
later that week
William and Mary Admits Her
Lala Jane found out she was on the waitlist for the [University of North Carolina](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-north-419c4ef2edf8), and then received an acceptance letter from [William & Mary](entity:location-recall-location-18af529da3e0). Peter was excited to celebrate with her and proposed a plan: she could first attend William & Mary for a year, visit the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604) to see him
spring break
Margot Comes Home
Lara Jean picks up Margot and [Ravi](entity:character-recall-character-ravi-99fb6a0de8f1) at the airport, delighted to have her sister home. At the house, Margot is startled by how close Trina has become to the family and how much the household has changed in her absence.
A disagreement erupts when Margot expects Ravi to share her room. Dan hesitates, then reluctantly accepts that his adult daughter will make her own decision. Ravi, considerate of the family tension, chooses the guest room instead, while Lara Jean sees that Margot's return has exposed changes that felt gradual to everyone who stayed home.
during Margot's spring-break visit
Margot Questions the Transfer Plan
After [Ravi](entity:character-recall-character-ravi-99fb6a0de8f1) leaves, Margot asks Lara Jean how she feels about missing the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604). Lara Jean says she intends to transfer after a year at William and Mary, insisting that UVA is where she belongs and that being near Peter is only part of the reason.
Margot cautions her not to spend freshman year wishing she were somewhere else. She reminds Lara Jean of their mother's warning about going to college with a boyfriend, then helps her find real possibilities in William and Mary's clubs, campus, and town. Lara Jean agrees to give it a fair chance, though her resolve remains conditional.
during Margot's spring-break visit
Dan Plans to Marry Trina
At dinner, Dan announces that he wants to ask Trina to marry him. Kitty erupts with joy, and Lara Jean immediately imagines helping with the proposal, while Margot offers enthusiastic approval that Lara Jean senses is not entirely sincere.
In private, Margot admits that the idea feels sudden and strange, especially because Trina is the neighbor who has entered their home and routines. Lara Jean understands that Margot has missed the gradual intimacy that made Trina feel like family to those at home, and she tries to protect her sister's place while still supporting her father's happiness.
the Saturday after Dan's announcement
The Proposal by the Waterfall
Dan takes Trina on a hike while Lara Jean, Peter, and Kitty hide nearby with a phone ready to record. Dan begins his proposal beside a waterfall, but Trina chokes on a piece of candy, interrupting the moment and sending him into action before he can finish.
Once she catches her breath, Trina realizes what he was asking and says yes. Kitty rushes to embrace her, Lara Jean hugs her father, and the family celebrates together. The engagement makes the household's expansion official and gives Lara Jean a new role in welcoming Trina into the family.
the weeks after the engagement
Wedding Plans and Tensions
Lara Jean throws herself into wedding planning, assembling a mood board full of flowers, vintage romance, and carefully imagined details. Trina and Dan would rather keep the wedding simple, but Lara Jean keeps trying to make it memorable, including elaborate ideas for cakes, decorations, and entertainment.
Kitty resists Lara Jean's wish for matching ethereal bridesmaid outfits and insists on wearing a tuxedo. The small conflict reveals Lara Jean's tendency to turn care into control, while Kitty insists that the wedding belongs to Trina and Dan, not to Lara Jean's aesthetic vision.
a few weeks after the engagement
Trina Moves In
Trina sells her house and moves into the Covey home, bringing boxes of clothes, shoes, and belongings that quickly alter the rooms. Lara Jean sees how her mother once shaped the house and worries about what it means for Trina to move into a home built by another woman.
Dan and Trina begin to bicker over ordinary domestic matters, including Trina's treadmill and the move itself. Lara Jean recognizes that friction is part of their intimacy: their new relationship has brought liveliness into a household that had settled into quiet routines.
during a lacrosse game in spring
Peter's Father at the Game
At a game with Kitty, Lara Jean notices a handsome man watching Peter from the sidelines and realizes he is Peter's estranged father. He says he has missed watching his son play and asks Lara Jean not to tell Peter he was there.
Lara Jean agrees, then struggles with the secret. She worries that telling Peter could reopen old wounds, especially when his mother suggests that Lara Jean's not attending the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604) may be for the best. The encounter makes Peter's broken relationship with his father feel immediate rather than abstract.
the evening after the game
Lara Jean Urges Reconciliation
Lara Jean tells Peter that his mother thinks her attending William and Mary may be for the best, then gently asks whether he will send his father a graduation announcement. Peter says he will not, and turns the conversation back to movies.
After [Stormy](entity:character-recall-character-stormy-73e914cfa9cb)'s death later makes the brevity of life impossible to ignore, Lara Jean urges Peter to consider inviting his father to graduation. Peter resists, saying his father is self-serving, but eventually agrees to think about it rather than refusing outright.
late spring, several weeks before prom
Stormy Dies
[John Ambrose McClaren](entity:character-recall-character-john-ambrose-mcclar-24dcaaae23fe) texts Lara Jean that [Stormy](entity:character-recall-character-stormy-73e914cfa9cb) has died in her sleep. Lara Jean is devastated, remembering Stormy's vivid stories, her advice, and the ring she gave her. The loss also brings back the memory of her mother's funeral and the fear she felt as a child when her family first seemed unsafe.
Unable to attend the funeral in Rhode Island, Lara Jean calls Margot, who suggests holding a memorial at [Belleview](entity:location-recall-location-belleview-638f3f307b1f) for Stormy's friends. Lara Jean arranges it, turning grief into a chance to honor the woman who taught her to choose love and adventure.
the Thursday before prom
Stormy's Memorial
Lara Jean dresses in a sundress [Stormy](entity:character-recall-character-stormy-73e914cfa9cb) admired and organizes a [Belleview](entity:location-recall-location-belleview-638f3f307b1f) memorial with music, punch, roses, and stories. She speaks about Stormy's youth, her daring streak, and the life she lived with appetite and courage, then concludes that love means making brave choices every day.
John arrives after returning from the funeral and raises a toast with Lara Jean. He tells her about his girlfriend, Dipti, and his uncertain college choice; their conversation confirms that their old almost-romance has become a fond, wistful friendship. Lara Jean leaves the memorial feeling she has said goodbye properly.
after Stormy's memorial
John and Peter's Jealousy
Peter meets Lara Jean after his [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604) open house and admits that his father appeared unexpectedly, asking to join him. Peter refused, convinced that his father wants credit for his achievements rather than a real relationship.
Lara Jean tells him she thinks he should give his father a chance, then mentions that John may attend William and Mary. Peter reacts with jealousy and doubts that John's long-distance relationship will last. Their exchange exposes how much both college distance and old romantic history are beginning to unsettle them.
prom night, the day before her eighteenth birthday
Lara Jean's Prom
Lara Jean attends prom in a dusty-pink dress and [Stormy's pink diamond ring](entity:object-recall-object-stormy-s-pink-diamond-aced2408c9b0). Peter arrives in a tuxedo, gives her the corsage she wanted, and pins a daisy corsage on Kitty as well. Their friends join them on the dance floor, and Peter wins prom king while Lara Jean watches proudly.
For their last dance, Peter arranges for Al Green's “Let's Stay Together” to play, presenting it as fate. At midnight, he surprises Lara Jean with a birthday celebration at their favorite diner, complete with a cake he baked from a box and a recreation of Sixteen Candles. She wishes she will always feel for him as she does then.
the day after prom
A New Cookie Breakthrough
At the community pool, Lara Jean and Peter share a playful summer afternoon while she studies for finals. Their teasing turns tender as Peter braids her hair, though his upcoming training camp reminds them that their familiar days together are nearly over.
After a tense night at a party where Peter drinks and Lara Jean refuses to let him drive, she returns home unsettled and makes a grilled cheese. The direct heat beneath the bread gives her an idea: parchment paper may help her cookies spread more than the silicone mat she has been using.
the day after the party
The Perfect Cookie
Lara Jean tests her parchment-paper theory and presents the resulting flat, chewy cookies to Peter and Kitty. The texture is finally close to what she has been pursuing, and she explains the crisp edges and soft center with the intensity of someone unveiling a discovery.
Kitty is unimpressed by the elaborate tasting lecture, but Peter praises the cookies and apologizes for drinking when he was supposed to drive Lara Jean. Lara Jean asks whether he is truly all right with her going to UNC; he says they will learn to manage whatever comes, though he looks for reassurance in her embrace.
the final days of school
The UNC Waitlist Opens
While Peter is away at a training weekend, Lara Jean receives an unexpected email: she has been admitted to the [University of North Carolina](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-north-419c4ef2edf8) after being wait-listed. The acceptance thrills her because it is a choice she had not believed she still had, and it gives her a chance to imagine a life not organized around transferring to the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604).
[Chris](entity:character-recall-character-chris-6b96eaa1894c) immediately persuades her to drive to Chapel Hill and see the campus before deciding. Lara Jean tells Kitty not to inform their father of the destination, and she sets out with Chris, her phone nearly dead and her old plan suddenly less certain.
that evening
Chapel Hill with Chris
Lara Jean and [Chris](entity:character-recall-character-chris-6b96eaa1894c) reach Chapel Hill and explore Franklin Street, eat sushi and burritos, and catch a show at [Cat's Cradle](entity:location-recall-location-cat-s-cradle-d6097287a723). The campus resembles the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604) enough to feel familiar, but the people, music, and unplanned night give Lara Jean a sense of possibility beyond the future she had carefully arranged.
At the [Old Well](entity:location-recall-location-old-well-cbdfc3960dd0), she and Chris talk about their own uncertain paths. Chris says Lara Jean could be happy at UNC and asks why she should choose a school only because it keeps Peter closer. Looking at two trees whose branches meet overhead, Lara Jean begins to imagine choosing a place because it might make her happy.
just after three a.m., following the Chapel Hill trip
Lara Jean Chooses UNC
Lara Jean returns home after three in the morning to find Dan, Trina, and Kitty waiting in alarm. She apologizes for going out of state without calling, then reveals that the reason for the trip was her admission to UNC. Her father remains upset about the lack of a call but embraces her and celebrates the news.
Lara Jean confirms that she will attend UNC rather than William and Mary. The decision is not yet a solution to the distance between her and Peter, but it is the first time she has chosen a college because she can imagine being happy there for herself.
the following evening
Peter Struggles with the Distance
Lara Jean tells Peter she has chosen UNC, describing the campus and the branches of the trees she saw at the [Old Well](entity:location-recall-location-old-well-cbdfc3960dd0). Peter initially congratulates her, but his exhaustion from lacrosse training gives way to fear about the greater distance and the demands of college.
He admits that balancing classes, practice, and training will be intense, and he had not expected her to be so far away. Lara Jean tries to reassure him that they will learn how to manage, but she notices that he is not fully listening. They go to a party to celebrate her admission, carrying their first real unease about the future together.
the first week after graduation
The Beach Week Fight
At [Beach Week](entity:time-recall-time-beach-week-fabd874ea703) in Nags Head, Lara Jean notices Peter becoming distant even as he remains charming around their friends. He is preoccupied with training and his father, while Lara Jean tries to keep their remaining time together light. When [John Ambrose McClaren](entity:character-recall-character-john-ambrose-mcclar-24dcaaae23fe) arrives at a party and announces he may transfer to UNC, Peter grows tense and makes dismissive remarks about John's relationship.
Lara Jean calls Peter insecure, and their argument continues the next morning when he refuses the French toast she made. At the last party, she tries to reconnect, and they acknowledge that the real strain is not John or the carrots but the changes waiting after summer. Lara Jean suggests not wasting the short time they have left together.
the final night of Beach Week
Their First Time Begins
Back at Lara Jean's house, she decides she is ready to have sex with Peter. She initiates affection, asks him to play Frank Ocean, then pauses to change into the special underwear she packed and retrieve a condom from the kit her father prepared for college.
Peter repeatedly checks that she is sure and asks whether the decision is driven by their recent fight. Lara Jean tells him she wants to be close to him because she loves him and wants it to be him. Before they can continue, Peter stops, overwhelmed by his father's absence, her upcoming trip, and the possibility that she is leaving him behind emotionally.
the same night, after Lara Jean's decision to stop
Peter Pulls Away
Peter says he does not want to have sex that night and admits that Lara Jean's trip and decision to attend UNC make him feel as though she does not care about leaving. He asks whether she still intends to transfer to the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604); Lara Jean cannot promise that she will.
Peter leaves her bedroom, and Lara Jean cries after the front door shuts. The moment turns their unspoken anxieties into a rupture: he fears being left, while she insists on the right to give her chosen college a genuine chance.
the day after Beach Week
Mrs. Kavinsky's Warning
Peter sends apologies and says he loves Lara Jean, but when she answers his call she discovers that it is his mother, who has invited her over. [Mrs. Kavinsky](entity:character-recall-character-mrs-kavinsky-dee34eb06c91) explains that Peter is still hurting over his father's failure to show up at graduation and says he has discussed transferring to UNC.
She warns that he would lose his lacrosse scholarship if he transferred and that he cannot build his life around a teenage relationship. She asks Lara Jean to help ensure that Peter stays focused at the [University of Virginia](entity:location-recall-location-university-of-virgin-af413b866604) and says he will not let Lara Jean go unless she lets him go first. Lara Jean leaves feeling ashamed and frightened by the weight of the decisions adults have placed on her.
the evening after the conversation with Mrs. Kavinsky
Sisters Clash Over Trina
At home, Lara Jean feels detached from the ordinary dinner discussion while she privately turns over [Mrs. Kavinsky](entity:character-recall-character-mrs-kavinsky-dee34eb06c91)'s warning. Margot criticizes Trina's limited interest in Korean food, and Kitty snaps that the house feels smaller when Margot is home, provoking Margot to retreat upstairs hurt.
Lara Jean tells Kitty that Margot feels displaced because she missed the gradual changes at home and deserves reassurance. Later, Margot confesses that returning feels like finding a new family she does not belong to, and admits that she misses their mother. The sisters acknowledge that life continued without Margot and that the family must make room for both change and grief.
the night before Trina and Dan's wedding
The Bachelorette Night
The family and Trina's friends gather for a nineties-themed bachelorette party. Lara Jean is uneasy about seeing Peter, but a few stolen sips of cocktails leave her unexpectedly drunk. When the bachelor party arrives, she rushes to Peter and tells him she has missed him.
Outside, she says that they should not attempt a long-distance relationship, insisting that each must pursue the life they are supposed to have. Peter realizes she spoke with his mother and feels betrayed. He says he had only mentioned transferring as a possibility, then accuses Lara Jean of already treating their relationship as a chapter to close. She responds that perhaps he is right, and he walks away.
the morning after the bachelorette
Lara Jean Regrets the Breakup
Lara Jean wakes with a hangover and the conviction that she has made a mistake. She remembers Peter's stricken expression more clearly than the details of what she said, and sends him a brief apology.
Peter does not answer, and her call goes straight to voicemail. The silence convinces her that he may be done with her, deepening her regret just as [Chris](entity:character-recall-character-chris-6b96eaa1894c) announces that she is leaving sooner than planned for the [Dominican Republic](entity:location-recall-location-dominican-republic-f24af5465e0b).
the week before Trina and Dan's wedding
Chris Leaves for the Dominican Republic
[Chris](entity:character-recall-character-chris-6b96eaa1894c) tells Lara Jean that a place has opened for her at an eco-hotel in the [Dominican Republic](entity:location-recall-location-dominican-republic-f24af5465e0b), and she is leaving immediately. Lara Jean is shocked that their friendship is ending sooner than expected, but understands that Chris cannot resist a new possibility.
Before she goes, Lara Jean gives Chris a framed childhood photograph and asks her to keep it wherever she travels, so she will remember someone is waiting for her at home. The gift reflects Lara Jean's instinct to preserve relationships through keepsakes even as the people she loves begin to leave.
the night before the wedding
A Night of Honest Talk
Unable to sleep, Lara Jean finds Trina outside after a rare cigarette and makes her a cup of Night-Night tea. Trina asks what is happening with Peter, and Lara Jean explains the college choices, [Mrs. Kavinsky](entity:character-recall-character-mrs-kavinsky-dee34eb06c91)'s warning, and the breakup.
Trina tells her that her mother never knew Peter and might have judged differently if she had. More importantly, she says love cannot be made safe by avoiding all hurt; vulnerability is part of being in love. When Lara Jean asks how Trina knew Dan was right for her, Trina says she decided on him and on their life together.
a June day, the day after the bachelorette
Trina and Dan's Wedding
The family prepares for an intimate backyard wedding decorated with lanterns and Christmas lights. Lara Jean and Margot wear vintage dresses, Kitty wears the tuxedo she wanted, and Trina appears radiant as she joins Dan. The ceremony brings their families together without erasing the past.
During the father-daughter dance, Lara Jean sees Peter standing beside the dogwood tree. He came despite their breakup, partly because of the bachelor party he had arranged for Dan. Their meeting begins with apologies and a reckoning: Lara Jean says Peter shut her out, while Peter admits he was frightened she would go to UNC and discover he was not worth staying for.
during the wedding reception
Peter and Lara Jean Reconcile
Peter and Lara Jean acknowledge that neither wanted the breakup. Lara Jean explains that she wanted her first time with him because she loves him, not to close a chapter; Peter says he will not feel the same way about anyone else and insists they should not let fear or other people's choices decide their relationship.
They dance together as older versions of themselves, accepting that the coming year will be hard without treating difficulty as proof that they should separate. Peter's honesty about his fear allows Lara Jean to meet him with her own vulnerability, and they choose to try long distance rather than end things preemptively.
later that night after the wedding
The Amended Contract
After the guests leave, Lara Jean finds her yearbook on her bed and discovers Peter's long-awaited message. Instead of a romantic note, he has written an amended relationship contract: weekly handwritten letters from him, daily calls from her, a picture of him on her wall, and the scrapbook displayed where potential admirers can see it.
The final promise is that Peter will love Lara Jean with all his heart, always. The contract turns their relationship's old playful language into a practical plan for distance and a shared decision to tell each other the truth, even when it is difficult.
the night before Lara Jean leaves for college
The Last Night at Home
Before leaving for college, Lara Jean and Peter drive to a lake to watch the [Perseids meteor shower](entity:time-recall-time-perseids-meteor-shower-aba2d2b2a9ea). Kitty wants to join but cannot bring herself to ask, and Lara Jean chooses to keep the evening for herself and Peter, later recognizing her selfishness while knowing she would make the same choice again.
Under the night sky, Peter finally tells her how they met: he noticed her at a sixth-grade assembly, remembered her glitter-lettered backpack, and thought she was cute. Lara Jean is astonished that he preserved those small details. Their origin story was not a letter alone, but a long history beginning when they were children.
the novel's closing reflection
The Story Begins with a Letter
As Lara Jean thinks about how she and Peter will explain their history to people at college, she weighs the competing stories: childhood friends, former almost-lovers, and high-school sweethearts. She decides that the simplest answer is that it all began with a love letter.
The ending leaves the couple on the threshold of separation but not at an ending. Their relationship is unfinished and exposed to change, yet they have chosen to try, carrying their memories, promises, and shared past into the future.